Anonymous asked
this dude i've been with for about 9 months now just told me he has a girlfriend. at first we were just fuck buddies but things started to become more than that and i did the mistake of falling for him (i know, foolish of me) But i know he feels SOMETHING for me at least. he says he still wants me and doesn't want anything to change. What should i do? i feel really bad for his girl, but i'm in love with him. this is sooo bad lol...

If you want him then go for him but acknowledge the impression you’re leaving by staying after knowing all of the information you do.

Anonymous asked
i adore your beautiful relationship with laith๐Ÿ˜

Lol thanks

Anonymous asked
I told my friend who I think I may be in love with, that I really liked him and appreciate him being in my life. And he then told me "thats cool, I like and appreciate you, you too. You're one of the best people I've met since being here" WHAT DO I DO NOW?!

Well he either misunderstood what you said or understood it and tried to pretend he didn’t. Just be you.. Obviously he likes being around “you”.

Anonymous asked
somebody called me a fat ass at school today and when I told my friends they said I wasn't I'm 145 pounds and I'm fourteen

Well depending on your height that could be overweight for your age. Workout and change your lifestyle. It’s much easier the younger you are!

Anonymous asked
I've just gotten out of my first ever relationship, and the reason for the breakup was something much bigger than what both of us could handle or change and we had to stop before we'd get more involved in eachother.. I'm having a really hard time just getting out of bed.. I'm diabetic and I can't even keep up with my injections anymore. I miss him and I try to occupy myself but it's of no use. What would you suggest I do?

This may be hard to believe right now but.. You’ll get over it.

Anonymous asked
Would you ever bartend? Have you ever?

I do

Anonymous asked
totally forgot about us here. =( id tweet you to be honest but my boyfriend has a CRAZY ex that stalks my life for a living so id like to keep my twitter private LOL...just come back

Hellllllller!

Anonymous asked
what would you do if you were 21 and your parents were still strict, like your not allowed to sleep over any ones house,parents always want to know where you went etc, etc. I'm in skool & I work, but can't afford to live on my own yet and don't have a friend to live with.

I’d get a better job and move the fuck out.

Anonymous asked
what lipstick colour are you wearing in your twitter profile picture?

Either :
Flat out fabulous or Media both from mac

Anonymous asked
Hi, thanks for answering my question, I really appreciate it! ๐Ÿ˜Š "I don’t feel it is official until it is verbally confirmed so." Should a girl wait until the guy confirms it? So I have to wait until he calls me his girlfriend

I’m sure you can feel through actions your importance to someone but it doesn’t hurt to ask girl..

Anonymous asked
hi asiah ive really been goin through it lately. Its my last year in high school, and everything around me is falling apart! i dont even want to go to Prom anymore and i cant go more than 3 days without crying. ive also decided not to go to college and everyone is looking down on me. I usually just dust stuff like this off but i cant seem to right now. Im so emotional,everything is just dragging me down

This is just a phase. You are young, you’re in high school, you’re under pressure to pick something you want to do for the next 40 years of your life .. Shit gets stressful. Just do what makes you happy and forget everything else.

Keep in mind this is advice from a person who likes to live in the present.
Someone who lives in the future may tell you differently..

Anonymous asked
AYISHA HELP ME :'( my boyfriend is a model and he gets a lot of girls tweeting him and tweeting about him just like Laith. We've been official for like a month now, before that it used to annoy me but now... Oh my god I feel like I'm going to explode everytime a girl flirts with him. How do you deal with it? I've literally cried over anger with some if these hoes. They have so much nerve..

As long as your man represents you in a way where you’re comfortable then don’t worry about the dehydrated females. Bitches will know about you but not acknowledge you - it happens and I don’t blame ‘em. If I saw a dude I wanted I’m going at him until he tells me to stop regardless of his relationship status. It is HIS job to respect his relationship, not theirs. I’m just being honest.

Anonymous asked
When do you think is the right time to move in with a boyfriend?

The thing with me is .. I wanna move in together ASAP lol. That’s just me. I like to play house but for real haha

Anonymous asked
My bf recently told me that i was the only girl that has made him feel like he has "low-self esteem" he says he never dated a girl like me and that I am too good for him. He also thinks I could have any guy that I want. He is a cute guy though. I don't understand why he puts me on a pedestal. It makes me sad to hear him say these hings. Have you ever been in a relationship like this? And how should I appease him so he won't have to feel this way..

You don’t appease him. That is his issue. If he doesn’t feel like he’s good enough for you that’s his outlook on himself - has nothing to do with the way you see him.

Anonymous asked
What is your regular curly hair routine? I've been mixing products for years and still haven't been able to get my hair curly without the frizz ๐Ÿ˜ž

My hair is fucked right now. When I’m going out ill put one of the 90 treatments I’ve bought in my hair first thing when I shower. Take a 45 min shower then rinse it out. If it’s not looking like it’ll behave after air drying I pull out my handy dandy diffuser.