Anonymous asked
You're so gorgeous! I'm dark skinned and wished I was light skinned like you.. I get made fun of cuz of my dark complexion.. I try not to get "butt hurt" cuz it's not my fault, I was born this way. It's just really hard being a dark skinned young female these days

Listen man.. It pains me to hear y’all say this! Black is beautiful! “Lightskins” wouldn’t exist without “darkskins”. Beauty comes in all different sizes, shapes, and colors. Worry about your being and character. At the end of that day that’s all that really matters.

Ouuu, you KNOW I got that foreign 😌

Ouuu, you KNOW I got that foreign 😌

Anonymous asked
Hi if I'll ask you "why are you beautiful? what would be your answer? Seriously

I am beautiful because I care selflessly. I try to treat those I care for with the utmost respect at all times (unless they’ve proven themselves unworthy) and my will to not give up greatly surpasses my will too (which isn’t always a positive).

I am beautiful because I love.

Anonymous asked
What do you think is the most important trait a woman should acquire?

Self worth.

Anonymous asked
Are you still dependent with your parents when it comes to financial?

Nope .. If anything my fam depends on me.

goomegoo asked
Have you ever been to Asia?

Nope

Anonymous asked
Asiah! You're like the only person that I trust and the only person that's real with me. So I have a friend that I really have feelings for but he treats me like shit. I know that I shouldn't put up with it and I feel like I'm losing my self worth. Growing up I never had any attention from guys so he's the first. Im only 17 but I dont want this to be a cycle when I become older. But I dont know how to just end it

It sucks to have to put what you know should be done over the optimism you have about your situations but I assure you that your gut wouldn’t lie. Do what feels right.

Anonymous asked
I cheated on my man and lied about it but now he knows and we broke up for 3 days and we had makeup sex so now were on good terms, but we still mess around with each other.. I love him, and he loves me.. I just really fucked shit up. Would it be a waste of time to try and fix things? Cuz whenever he gets mad at me he brings it up, I never say anything cuz I know I was wrong.. Idk what to do, help please

It’s going to keep being brought up darling, that’s how fucking up works. You’ll have to leave it or put up with it until you’ve proven yourself again

Anonymous asked
How long did it take for you to grow your hair that long?

2 years and my damn hair stylist just cut it all off 😔😔

Anonymous asked
You look like amber rose, you know, with hair, of course.

That is a first lol

Anonymous asked
Should a girl spoil her boyfriend? People say you should keep your man happy but how do you do that without him taking you for granted?

Treat men how they DESERVE to be treated, not how you want to treat them. That is some of the best advice I’ve ever given.